Meet your Coach!

About me

Aloha! I'm Roxy, a certified Integrated Attachment Theory Relationship Coach who helps singles understand their attachment style and build healthier relationships.

If you're tired of repeating the same dating patterns, I'm here to help you gain clarity, confidence, and the tools to create secure, lasting relationships.

How it started

Psychology has always fascinated me, especially when it comes to relationships. Growing up, I was often the friend people turned to for relationship advice and support.

In 2014, I became deeply interested in personality typology and how it influences romantic relationships. A few years later, I began attending personal development seminars and retreats, where I discovered how much our subconscious beliefs and patterns influenced our everyday lives.

While this knowledge helped me create positive changes in my life, I still found relationships challenging—which ultimately led me to explore attachment theory and begin my own healing journey.

relationships were hard

For years, I found myself repeating the same unhealthy relationship patterns and wondering why dating felt so difficult.

It wasn't until I discovered attachment theory that everything started to make sense. I realized my fearful-avoidant attachment style was influencing the way I connected with others and creating challenges in my relationships. I learned how deeply attachment patterns were also connected to the subconscious mind.

Understanding both my attachment style and the subconscious beliefs driving my behavior became the key to creating healthier, more secure relationships.

I wanted CHANGE

After recognizing my own unhealthy relationship patterns, I committed to doing the inner work to create lasting change.

I earned certifications in Integrated Attachment Theory, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnotherapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to better understand human behavior and relationships.

Thanks to neuroscience, I was able to rewire my old patterns of thinking on a deep subconscious level. This allowed me to approach love and relationships with a more secure mindset.

Dating Differently

I went from being fearful-avoidant to secure, and it completely changed the way I approach dating.

Today, I date with confidence, healthy boundaries, and a clear understanding of what I want in a partner. I've learned how to stop repeating old patterns, recognize healthy connections, and show up authentically.

I’m no longer drawn to emotionally unavailable, smothering, or growth-resistant dynamics. Healing my attachment style has given me clarity and confidence in dating, and I now create space for a relationship rooted in security—not insecurity.

Now, I help other singles do the same—so they can date with confidence and create secure, fulfilling relationships.

you can become secure too!

Over the years, I've helped people better understand their attachment style, recognize unhealthy patterns, and build more secure relationships.

I believe lasting change is possible. With the right tools and support, you can heal old patterns, date with greater confidence, and create healthier connections.

My goal is to help you develop the self-awareness and emotional security needed to navigate dating and relationships with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.

Don't wait any longer - start your journey towards a secure you today!